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As the daughter of the queen of self-help books, I am, then, the princess of pop psychology: I have read as many if not more self help books as my mom. Back in the day, we had therapy but we either didn’t have money for it (and companies surely didn’t cover it in any insurance plans…ever) or we didn’t want to deal with the stigma that small town mentalities would inevitably put on one who had to visit the “nuthouse” or get his or her head “shrunk”. The next best thing, for first my mom and then, by proxy, for me, was to read the latest self-help books.作为女儿,英国女王的自助书籍,我的话,公主的流行心理学:我看了很多,如果没有更多的自助书籍为我的妈妈.早在白天,我们曾治疗,但我们不是没有钱,因为(和公司当然不包括它的任何保险图...ever)或我们不想要处理的耻辱小镇心态难免放在一个人已访问了"nuthouse"或找他或她的头"缩水".退而求其次,第一,我的妈妈,然后,由代理人,对于我来说,就是阅读最新的自助书籍.
The first one I recall in relation to my brilliant and avid, voracious, reader mother was Gail Sheehy’s PASSAGES, a brilliant survey of all of the stages of life and the instrumental changes each person at each stage undergoes. The last one I remember my mother sharing with me was one of the many self help books I needed, unfortunately, despite (or as supplement to) my weekly therapy sessions: THE COURAGE TO HEAL (a fat ass book of a size sufficient to using it as a doorstop, and its accompanying workbook).第一,我记得在与我的光辉和热爱,voracious,读者的母亲是gailsheehy的机票,灿烂的调查,所有的生命阶段和器乐改变每个人在每个阶段经历.上一次我记得我妈妈分享我也是许多自助书籍我需要,不幸的是,尽管(或补充)我每周治疗课:勇气抚平(fatass书的大小,足以把它作为doorstop,及其所附workbook). In between the self-help books Mom would pass on to me or I would snatch up as soon as she finished reading them and the self-help books I only occasionally indulge in now were at least 1500 self-help books on love, sexuality, spirituality, religion, and the paranormal. There was the life-saving (literally, not figuratively and not exagerratedly) book by Melody Beatty called CODEPENDENT NO MORE; the brilliant compilations by Thomas Moore, such as SOUL MATES and CARE of the SOUL: A GUIDE to CULTIVATING DEPTH and SACREDNESS in EVERYDAY LIFE and Diane Ackerman, with her books A NATURAL HISTORY of the SENSES and A NATURAL HISTORY of LOVE; Shakti Gawain’s LIVING IN THE LIGHT: A GUIDE to PERSONAL and PLANETARY TRANSFORMATION; James Redfield’s THE CELESTINE PROPHECY and THE TENTH INSIGHT; David Viscott’s HOW to LIVE with ANOTHER PERSON; and the stunning imperative read, NECESSARY LOSSES, by Judith Viorst.在中间的自助书籍妈妈会将我或我抢了她只要看完他们和自助书籍,我只是偶尔放纵,现在至少有1500自助书籍爱情,性生活,灵性,宗教,超自然的.曾有救命(从字面上看,不形象,不exagerratedly)书,由旋律beatty称为codependent不多;辉煌的收集整理工作,由托马斯穆尔如灵魂的丰富与关怀的灵魂:指导培养深度和神圣性,在日常生活和黛安娜阿克曼,她的书自然史的意识,以及一种自然历史的爱情;shakti表象的生活,在光线:指导个人与行星改造;詹姆斯redfield的celestineprophecy和第十眼光;戴维viscott的该如何面对他人;而亮丽,必须经过必要的损失,由朱迪思3-4. There are hundreds more self-help books I could list here, of course, but you will have to find for yourself the ones that appeal to and work best for you and your situation/needs. According to one psychologist, though, it is better to use self-help books in moderation and to do so in conjunction with therapeutic treatment. And since today we can thank the self-help master above for head-shrinkers and guardians of nutbags, that we can do.有数以百计的自助书籍我可以列举这里,当然但你一定要找出自己的那些呼吁与工作最适合你情况/需求.据一位心理学家,虽然这是更好地利用自助书籍省吃俭用,这样的结合治疗.自今天,我们可以感谢自助硕士以上头shrinkers和监护人nutbags,我们可以做的.
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